Sunday, July 26, 2009

Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

What happened to guys just liking the down home sista, with no make up(maybe eyeliner, eyeshadow, lip gloss), and natural or permed hair without weave?



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

one word.. fantasy... same reason you sista's want a ruff neck... fantasy...



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

those guys are in jail



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

Its not so much the video girl look but we like girls with big butts



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

They are there, you are just looking in the wrong place. Maybe you are just attracted to those that prefer the other and that is why it seems so one-sided.



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

It is a matter of personal choice or preference. To each his own.



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

I dont....



I guess because thats what they see on TV and thats what they then go after



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

All guys are into video girls . . . it's just another fantasy.



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

because their own african girls look ugly



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

well hey thats none of ur beeswax everyone has their own taste in women is it your job to tell everyone who they should like and maybe bcause they r not used to regular girls but its still not your job 2 tell them who 2 like



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

It's not only black guys. We found that some girls look way better with all that stuff.



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

cuz they look easy, and like strippers, eye candy. plus i guess its something to show off. i wouldn't limit this to the brothers tho.... white boyz like it too, lol



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

There are many men who are into natural beauty. What young men don't realize is the only way to look like the girls in the video is to have a team of hair and beauty experts on hand everyday, for 3 hours a day.



The truth is those girls don't look like that after they leave the set.



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

This is something that effects all races. ALL guys do this. The only video I have ever seen with a plain girl was John Mayer "your body is a wonderland" of the top of my head. White, Latino or Black.. men are men. Go to the late service in church. You may find more men of all colors who like the plain janes.



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

They died out lol



Why are guys (african american) into women that look like video girls?

ShayB,



Great question I'm so glad that you asked. It only leads to more questions though.



1) How long are we as a culture, neighborhood, community, nation going to push the standard and stereotypes in those music videos?



2) Why do we as women accept a false yes FALSE standard of beauty i.e. the video gal?



3) When are we going to raise up our boys to be real men who love and respect women, mothers sisters aunties, cousins, wives, lovers?



4) When will we STOP accepting someone Else's idea of what our culture is and start making positive choices for ourselves in art, music, videos, movies?



If your hanging out with fools like that I'd go to the source their Mother and ask them that question. Why are we failing our future? After those fools get taken by the "pretty video look alike", a smart young woman with morals and personal standards and a beauty that comes from with in looks real good. It's too bad those fools don't know how far and few between we are.

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