Please! Hair experts HELP! (need styling tips)?

This has been bugging the hell out of me for the last 20 years. Finally I decided to find a hair forum and go to the experts.

Im a 21 yr old male. Mexican/Native American (50/50) and I have VERY THICK VERY STRAIGHT hair. Every single hair cutter I've ever met has commented on it. I hate it. hate it hate it hate it. I cannot do a short style i.e. anything under 1/2 and inch or it will just poke straight out like a porcupine. no amount of gel,hairspray,glue, wax,putty will control it. Right now I have a faux hawk and the top looks nice @ about 2 inches(I use garnier putty) but the sides are approximately 3/4" and it will not lie down against my head. Its always trying to poke straight out away from my head. It doesn't sound like a big problem but it is. It makes my head appear much fatter/wider than it is. which makes my face look more round (when i already have a round face). Which makes me look fatter (when I am not fat at all). I have to wait for the sides to get about 1 1/2 inches before i can "slick" it down which makes my face look more oval and compliments my jawline. But to have the side of my hair that long when trying to do a short haircut looks real weird not to mention it looks like a mullet in the back. and if i wanted to go swimming (or surfing like I do alot) you can forget it. Once all the wax is gone my hair just puffs into a puffball afro mohawk thingy. cant drive with the windows down and paranoid about people messing with my hair.

Thats the problem. A friend of mine said to try a hair relaxer from wal-mart in the African American womens section. He did it to his hair and it felt gross, real wirey and stiff. Would this make my hair "relax" and lie down? I know its to straighten curly hair but my friend does the same faux hawk and his looked sweet and he said there was nothing to keep it up. The other thing I've been considering is growing my hair out to a long surfer/skater style. Ive tried this before but still had a huge problem with the whole puff ball deal when getting out of the pool or any time the gel came out. Also the back looked terrible just a lump of hanging hair no flip or anything to it. just like 4 inches or gel'ed crap.

Anyone with a solution or suggestion would be a lifesaver. Ideally, in my dreams , I want a short stylish style that I don't have to worry about my motorcycle helmet, or surfing or wresting or sweating or driving windows down. Even a long style that has a little style or movement other than just a clump or hair that makes me look like the Beetles. pretty much just like a Caucasian super sweet hair-du so I can get all the super sweet white girls that I get along with much more then anyone else.

If you still dont get what Im talking about, let me continue to describe. I can wax the side down right now @ 3/4 inch and blow dry it, but after about 2 minutes it automatically pops back back. at like a 45% angle from my head, making it look like a freakin mushroom.

okay I'm done.

Thanks!

Please! Hair experts HELP! (need styling tips)?

let your hair grow out get a permon the sides not NOT spiral just curled under then cut it

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

because im a light skinned african american and i have naturally sandy red hair, but i just put a temporary black dye in my hair, people think that i cant have sandy red hair, well most of my girl cousins have naturally sandy red hair and my sisters have brown hair, but people always ask is that your natural hair color? people are so stupid

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

You must keep the colour which you like the best, without paying attention to other楹搒 opinions....If you feel sure with your natural color, or a temporary one, what楹搒 wrong with that? Just be FREE...

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

I prefer to black color hair. That's my natural hair color. I think natural color hair is good and special. that's my opinion. =)

Anyway, I think red hair look cool too. Don't think about what people ask you because the most important thing is that you like your hair. Try black hair with some red hair highlighted. It will look great.

I hope my suggestions will help you. =)

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

brown/black

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

Hair color dosen't make a diffrence. Unless it's like green or purple.

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

brown because it goes w/ my eyes

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

black

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

Black, Dark Brown or, Red.

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

i prefer black or brown although my natural hair color is brownish red

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

I like black colour hair

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

i perfer the red sandy hair color, people are porbably asking you that beacause since your light the black hair probably makes you look faded or pale for your complexion to have black hair red sandy hair is different a pretty i would go back to my natural haircolor

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

i suppose your hair is really nice and really natural, so don't worry so much because it doesn't matter so much. of course is very important what people think about you, but more important than this is what do you think about people. it doesn't matter if they believe you or not on this subject. they are not all of them stupid. that's my opinion. maybe i'm also stupid. Ha ha ha. you're funny !

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

I've always liked blonds or redheads in my men.

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

well im italian and black and my hair is light brown with reddish highlights...naturally. i think it's actually disgusting so i dye my hair jet black. not because i care what anyone thinks.. but because i choose too.

once you get a little older you wont care what ignorant people think about you. i have been called everything from puerto rican, to mexican, to filipino....seriously. I personally dont care anymore... it used to bother me but who am i trying to please???? certainly not any hater who is judging me... so just shake all the hater comments off and enjoy being you....=]

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

anything really....depends on the face. My hair is naturally blonde, but first I dyed it dirty/dark blonde and now its brown and thats what looks best.

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

Brunette

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

Black is beautiful!!!!! I wouldn't have my hair any other way. I also have a red tone and dye it. i hate my natural it is brassy and the dye gives my hair nice texture and feel.

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

Brunette.

What color hair do you prefer???????????????

I have med. brown hair and it's a nice color for me閳?br>What color hair do you prefer???????????????

weirdly enough I knew an African American woman whose mom was also African American and had red hair. Ppl didn't believe it. I don't know why. They should believe!!

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

i'm african american , and have long hair ,and i am just getting out of the habit of running to the flat iron at every turn beacuse of the damage it causes , but recently i've started working out more and of course i sweat ,any tips for keeping my hair flat even after my workout without putting heat on it ?

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

you can tell the white people who answered this question cuz they said gel, BOO!!!! lol ;-)

but try running some frizz ease or garnier fructis thru your hair then wrapping it up..the hair not all your forehead included. that'll keep most of the sweat out of your hair and allow it not to frizz as easy. another thing that may help ( i do it every now and then) is to blow dry it on the lowest heat setting before you take it down!

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

Put your hair in what people call, a "Do Rag"

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

you can go to a beauty supply store and they can recommend something. My sister-in-law uses garnier fructis to keep her hair straight.

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

tell me when you get the answer i need help too. but i do try to keep it wrapped up when i work out.

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

put extra hold gel in it yea

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

LOTS and LOTS of gel!! :)

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

gel!

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

i really don know?????

(sorry)

How can i keep my hair straight even when i sweat ?

When I have been sweating or my hair is slightly wet I place a cotton scarf on until hair drys out. Cotton, because it takes moisture out of hair that is why you don't use them in general. And it prevents hair from poofing up. But this works because my hair already has product in it. I wash my hair approx. 1-2 times a week. Each time I wrap my hair with a foam wrap lotion, then curl hair w/curl wax. It last pretty long. But I will use gel if I need to, and if you use protein gel it will not break off hair. Gels or any other product with alcohol in them will however cause breakage.

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Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

I was just wondering,how come Asian,Caucasian,and some Latina women's hair grows faster than us AFrican Americans?Also,why is their hear more fuller,and thicker?Is it beacuse one hair strand is usualluy thinner than AfricanAMerican womans?

Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

The hair follicle determines the shape of the hair. For Asians and Native Americans, the follicle is round, creating straight hair. Most caucasians have a slightly oval follicle causing waves. African Americans have a follicle like a slit, causing very curly, coarse or kinky hair. The growth should be the same, but due to the curl or texture, it may appear that the hair isn't growing as fast. Thick hair is not specific to a race. All races have people with both thin and thick hair.

Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

I thought their hair was thinner than ours, all the African Americans women with long hair that I know have thick healthy hair while the White women have long but thin strands of hair....

Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

i really dont know, but i have seen some really nice weaves on some girls, makes me want one too.

Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

It's so nice to see that you're interested in the really important, and genuine, life issues here.....especially when there are so many people out here that are just into shallow, superficial, self interest things.

Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

Hello. Their hair does not grow faster than ours. The problem with our hair is that it is very fragile, and on top of that we relax it, which breaks the hair down even more. I believe all hair grows about a 1/4 inch a month. If you would like to grown out your hair, the first think you need to do is go to a salon and get i good cut. We tend not to want to cut our hair, but since we don't cut it, we tend to have alot of split ends. Those splite ends make the ends of your hair shorter, event though it is growing form the scalp. Do not use over the counter perms. The have no lye in them, but they are harsher than the perms they use at salons. Ask a beautician to show you how to wrap you hair at night. Our hair also breaks of when we are sleeping, when it rubs against the pillow case. You should go to a salon, get a good cut (cutting off all split ends) have them relax it for you and you should wrap it each night. If you do this for a few months, you will start to see how healthy your hair will start to become. Wash your hair once a week, set it in the hard rollers and sit under a dryer. then flat iron it. Try not to blow dry your hair. good luck

Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

LISTEN everyones hair grows at the same rate every month/years. the reason that black girls cant grow any damn hair is because ya'll treat your hair so terribly-you put chemicals in it by perming it,you stress you hair wayyy to much by putting tight weaves and braids in it-and you apply too much heat with hair dryers and hot combs- I am POSITIVE that EVERY black girl in the country would have to the same long pretty hair as the white and asians is they were to just ease up on the perms,weaves and braids,and heat, alot of black women dont know how to take care of there own hair and thats just a shame- if ya'll were to grow your hair naturally n never perm it and take care of it--ya'll would all have long pretty curly hair (not nappy).

im black myself and i am soooo sick and tired of seeing these black women out hair w/ no hair on their heads or a busted obvious weave-its disgusting.

Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

Afro and Indian hair are some of the thickest around. It is usually caucasian women with the thinner hair. My hair is very full and thick because I take care of it. Thats it, just take proper care of your hair and it will be full, long, and thick in no time. My hair is relaxed and in the middle of my back. The rate at which the hair grows is determined by genetics. That is something beyond anyones control. Do not believe ads or articles that say they have a secret formula for growing faster hair. Its all a scam. Your hair will grow on its own time, it is a process that cannot be rushed.

Read my answer to this question, its just a regimen for growing and maintaining afro hair:

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Why does their hair grow longer and faster than ours?

check the links below for natural homemade beauty tips to:-- How can you get a faster hair growth

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How to grow strong healthy hair?

i am an african american woman and my hair breaks often, i use relaxers once a month i would like stronger healthier hair any advice or tips or products i should use?

How to grow strong healthy hair?

Typically your hair when clean should be slightly oily. Chemicals can break down the proteins and make the hair dry and brittle causing it to break. Try some warm olive oil or pure vitamin e oil . Leave it on 5-10 minutes then wash with 'gentle' shampoo with no ammonium laureth or laurel sulfates. Ammonium acts a stripper and it dries the scalp too. So if its in your shampoo, its stripping your own hair oils too.

How to grow strong healthy hair?

apply hair oil massage once in a week

How to grow strong healthy hair?

By massaging it with oil and using herbal shampoos.

How to grow strong healthy hair?

try mane n' tail! it makes your hair really strong and helps prevent hair breakage.

How to grow strong healthy hair?

go to a salon or a beauty supplies place and ask them for a leave in conditioner for african american type of hair because since african american hair are really hard to take care.... there special treatment and different ingredients compnay use to treat it...... do the treatment about every other day then i think you hair should be fine.... if dat doesnt sound lke what oyu want to do, ask them for an alternative...

Are Weaves good for your hair?

I have a weave right now(it's sewn) but I want to soon take it out. I want my hair to grow long. Is there any african american girls with long hair that can give me some tips. I really need the help! Thanks

Are Weaves good for your hair?

Hi yes a weave is for your hair if it is sewn in, because your hair is growing underneath and it is protected, for there is nothing for you to do with your hair. If you have used glue please be careful when taking it out as this can take some of your hair out.

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Are Weaves good for your hair?

i am not african american i am puerto rican but i have long hair and some quick tips are NO WEAVES especially not swen they rip apart the hair folicle and get a good hairdresser

Are Weaves good for your hair?

weaves are NOT good for your hair if u wear them constantly. your hair needs a break, but it can take it's toll in the long run. growing your hair out takes a good hair care regime and patience. u may also want to monitor your diet. i can go into detail if u like, but what works for me may not necessarily work for u. i had long hair, but i chopped it off. it was too hot and heavy! it was past my shoulders, and now i wear a tapered asymmetrical bob. i don't regret it at all.

Any tips for getting my hair to grow faster?

i'm african american/white and my hair is curly....i do use a flatiorn straightener but...even then it's not that long,anything i can do or use?i've always wanted long hair

Any tips for getting my hair to grow faster?

eat more protein food like fish and meat, or eggs.Also taking gelatin caps daily... it would give inner power to your hair so it might grow fast, for conditioning use kerastase products for curly hair they are good!and most of all patience hair only grows about 12 to 18 cms. each year

Any tips for getting my hair to grow faster?

You should got to the salon and ask them do give you a realxer or a perm cause your mixed and it works well on that kinda of hair. or just take pills or break a vitamin capsule in your hair and leave it in for abou 10 minutes and massage it in then rinse.